A traditional breakdown of your big day’s expenses shared by the family and the bridal party.
Everyone loves a wedding, and when you’re planning your nuptials, those closest to you are happy to be part of the big occasion. Family and friends participating in the wedding know that it comes with a bit of financial responsibility. Below is a traditional breakdown of expenses shared by the family and the bridal party. However, modern wedding protocol calls for the bride and the groom not to be so hung up on who should pay for what. Consider the personal and financial situations of your family, friends, and bridal party. You may want to pick up some of the costs, such as paying for the bridesmaids’ shoes if you want to be sure they all wear the same kitten heels, or hosting the engagement party if you want it larger than what the groom’s parents can afford.
Bride
· Couple’s personal stationery and thank-you notes
· Wedding programs and guest book
· Gifts for bridesmaids and flower girl
· Lodging for bridesmaids
Groom
· Bride’s engagement ring
· Marriage license
· Officiant’s fee
· Rental or purchase of his formal wear
· Gifts for the groomsmen and ring bearer
· Lodging for groomsmen
Bride and Groom
· The wedding bands
· The honeymoon (In traditional families, this is still considered the groom’s expense.)
Bride’s Family
· Engagement and wedding pictures
· Wedding invitations
· Bridal attire
· Ceremony fees (including rental of synagogue or chapel, chuppah, aisle carpets, and other decorating items)
· Flowers (arrangements for ceremony and reception, as well as all bouquets, corsages, and boutonnieres)
· Reception (site fees, caterer, food, bar, gratuities, decorations)
· Music (ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception)
· Bridesmaids’ luncheon
· Transportation for bridal party to ceremony and reception
Groom’s Family
· Rehearsal dinner (or any other expense they elect, such as all beverage and liquor service, limousines, music for the reception, or photography and/or videography)
Bridesmaids
· Bridal shower
· Bridesmaids’ dresses and shoes
· Bachelorette party
· Any traveling expenses
Groomsmen
· Bachelor party
· Rental of formal wear
· Any traveling expenses
Flower Girl’s and Ring Bearer’s Parents
· Attire for flower girl and ring bearer
Guests
· Traveling and lodging expenses (Even if you’re having a destination wedding, guests pay their own way.)
Written by the Editors of Real Simple
Real Simple Weddings
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