Planning a Wedding: Introvert Edition

By Tara Martin –

Weddings can be very overwhelming and stressful to anyone, and preparing for these life-changing affairs can be twice as challenging for introverted brides and grooms. Unlike extroverts, who feel energized when entertaining and interacting with others, introverts can feel drained when being around people for long stretches of time.

Introverts and big social events may not naturally mix, but that does not mean that they cannot enjoy their special day. For introverts planning their wedding, here are some smart tips they can do to avoid feeling overwhelmed by all the preparations and socializing involved.

Have a “First Look” before the Ceremony

It is expected that all eyes will be on the bride and groom during the wedding ceremony, so introverted couples may want to set aside an hour or two they can spend together before the program begins. A first look gives the couple a short but sweet opportunity to bond before they head out into the spotlight.

They can use this time to help each other relax and talk about how they can help each other feel comfortable throughout the ceremony. This will also take some of the pressure off during the event since they can focus on the other guests.

Ask Help from Their Partner

Introverted grooms or brides should openly share their concerns and needs to their partners. If the introverted bride or groom is getting married to an extrovert, then they can ask their partner for help with the socializing and entertaining.

The extrovert can take the lead in situations that require a lot of interacting, like entertaining guests at the reception, while the introvert can focus on other preparations that can be done alone such as shopping for groomsmen gifts. The key is honest communication so that the couple can play up their strengths and downplay their weaknesses.

Recharge before the Big Day

The days leading up to the wedding and even after it can be packed with activities spent talking with family, discussing plans with the wedding coordinator, giving instructions to the cake chef, and so on. With all the constant interactions involved, it is important for introverts to spend the adequate alone time to recharge their social batteries before the big day.

The introverted bride or groom can take a day off to relax and be by themselves. They can do solitary hobbies that they enjoy, such as reading a book. They can also opt to disconnect from social media for a few days to avoid information overload. Here’s even more great tips for getting away from technology

Have a Casual Pre Wedding Get-Together

Having an informal gathering with close friends and family before the wedding may sound counterintuitive for introverts. However, these get-togethers can help take the pressure off from the actual wedding day. They don’t have to be big and fancy.

A simple yet meaningful dinner with close friends and family can help ease any anxiety that introverts are prone to feel in big crowds. Plus, introverts generally prefer one-on-one conversations, so they can make the most of these small affairs to celebrate with the people closest to them.


Weddings, as with any important life event, come with their own set of pressures and challenges, but with the right attitude and some strategic planning, even the most socially selective bride or groom can make the most out of this special occasion.

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